Some people erroneously believe that choosing cremation means that there can’t be funeral services or other memorial events. In reality, cremation is completely compatible with any kind of memorial or cremation service you choose to have. At Chapel of the Chimes Hayward, one type of service we offer is a simple memorial cremation ceremony.
With simple memorial cremation, the ceremony is held after the cremation has been completed. This option is ideal for families who wish to forgo the traditional viewing and visitation but still wish to hold a ceremony. The memorial ceremony can be religious or secular in nature, and you can personalize it any way you feel will best honor your lost loved one.
If you have any questions about cremation ceremonies or other services, contact Chapel of the Chimes Hayward today. We can walk you through the process of funeral planning in your time of need or pre-planning a funeral service in Hayward . You can reach us by calling (510) 400-4442.
Funeral pre-planning could be one of the most important things you do for your family. If you are considering planning your funeral services in advance, the first step will be contacting a funeral home to guide you through the process. Many people approach pre-planning with several questions in mind. Here are the answers to some of the most common queries people have.
Why would I pre-plan my funeral?
If you have ever been involved in planning a funeral for a loved one, then you know how stressful the process can be. You are being asked to make major decisions about things like burial, cremation, and funeral services while you are in the midst of dealing with the shock and grief of your loved one’s death. Families often struggle with concerns about ensuring their loved one’s wishes are being honored and may end up feeling guilty later because they fear they didn’t give a loved one the right kind of service. Funeral pre-planning takes all of these responsibilities off the shoulders of your loved ones so they can focus on supporting each other instead of making decisions about your funeral.
How do I start the planning process?
Once you choose a funeral home, they can guide you through the planning process. You can plan as much of your service or as little as you like. You may prefer to simply make a decision about burial or cremation, for instance, and make the plans for that, or you may want to make detailed plans that include things like music selections and readings. Whenever you complete your plan, make sure your family is aware so that they know what to do when you pass.
Does funeral pre-planning help with the costs?
Pre-planning can allow you to pre-pay for some or all of your funeral upfront. Because funeral costs can be so high, this is another way to spare your family from additional stress and heartache after a loss.
If you’re interested in funeral pre-planning, let Chapel of the Chimes Hayward help you get started on the process. Call our funeral home in Hayward today at (510) 400-4442 for more information.
There is no easy way to deal with the loss of a loved one. Many people find that the real grieving begins after the funeral services, when the distractions of planning are gone and other people get back to their normal routines. The good news is that help is available from grief counselors and other grief support services.
Watch this video to learn more about the grieving process. Dealing with grief will be a different experience for everyone. However, it’s still important to remember to reach out for help when you need it.
Chapel of the Chimes Hayward is pleased to offer grief support services in Hayward for families dealing with the loss of a loved one. Call our funeral home today at (510) 400-4442 when you need help.
Going to a funeral can be intimidating for many people. In addition to the grief associated with the occasion, some people are concerned about making etiquette mistakes and offending the family of the deceased unintentionally. If you are attending a funeral and have questions about what to expect, the funeral home is always willing to answer your questions. Here are some common mistakes to avoid at a funeral.
Leaving on Your Cell Phone
Cell phones and funerals are a bad mix. If possible, consider leaving your phone outside of the funeral home completely. If you need to bring your phone with you, make sure it is placed on silent. During the actual service and internment, consider turning your phone off, as even phones that are silenced make an audible vibrating noise that could be distracting. You should never check your phone, play games, text, or surf the next at any part of a funeral service. If you must look at your phone, excuse yourself to the bathroom or other private area.
Sitting in the Front Row
During a funeral ceremony, the front rows are usually reserved for close family members. If you are attending as a friend or colleague of the deceased, sit a few rows back so that the family has ample space. If you are unsure where to sit, ask someone working in the funeral home so they can direct you to the right area.
Not Offering Your Condolences
It’s naturally to feel anxious about approaching grieving family members who you may not know well, if at all, to express your condolences. However, not doing so is missing an important opportunity. When you tell the family about your relationship with their loved one and tell them how sorry you are for their loss, you give them comfort when they most need it.
Chapel of the Chimes Haywood will be glad to answer your questions about being a guest at one of the services held in our funeral home or on the grounds of our cemetery in San Mateo . To reach us, call (510) 400-4442.