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A Guide to Funeral Etiquette for Blended Families

Funeral Home Hayward

Funerals are events that demand exceptional etiquette, and this can be more complicated for blended families. If you are part of a blended family that will be attending a funeral service, then consider this guide on funeral etiquette for blended families.

Communicate with the Family Beforehand
Funeral etiquette can be particularly difficult for blended families because there are rarely simple answers to the questions that come up. One guideline that you should keep in mind, however, is communication. If you are unsure if you or someone in your family should attend the funeral, then communicate with the mourning family beforehand. If you or another would be less than welcome, then consider showing your respect to the immediate family and the deceased by visiting the gravesite at another time and not attending the funeral.

Put the Immediate Family First
When it comes to exhibiting proper funeral etiquette, one of the most important things to do is to show respect for the deceased by giving the bereaved family the opportunity to mourn and accept condolences from attendees. Any ongoing tension and disagreements that you may have with anyone in attendance should be left at home before attending a funeral, as this is not the time or location to revive arguments and display animosity toward others.

Consider Your Other Options
If you have not been invited to a funeral, but your children have been, then you may want to reach out to a trusted relative or friend who can be there with your children in your place. If you have been invited to a funeral but, because of the complications of your blended family, you feel uncomfortable about attending, then it is reasonable to send sympathy flowers and a respectful condolence card instead of attending.

Chapel of the Chimes Hayward offers funeral etiquette resources and a broad selection of cemetery and funeral services to allow you to honor your deceased loved one. If you’re planning a funeral in Hayward, then please call us today at (510) 398-6922.

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